Introduction
The G-spot, short for the also called the Gräfenberg spot (for German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg) is an erogenous zone (aka heightened sensitivity) in the vagina. Gräfenberg was technically studying urethral stimulation, not the G-spot in particular.
Stimulation of the G-spot can lead to stronger and deeper orgasms than ones from clitoral stimulation in some people. There has been no scientific proof of the G-spot, though it has been studied since the early 1940’s.
The two primary methods that have been used to define and locate the G-spot as a sensitive area in the vagina are self-reported levels of arousal during stimulation, and stimulation of the G-spot leading to female ejaculation.
Where is it Located?
Typically reported to be located about 50 to 80 mm (2 to 3 in) inside the vagina, on the front wall, the G-spot needs direct stimulation, much like the clitoris. This can be done manually or with the help of sex toys. G-spot specific toys are curved upwards to help with direct stimulation.
The Female Prostate
As of 2001, the Skene’s Gland is medically acknowledged to be the equivalent to the female prostate. Modern science hypothesizes that the Skene’s Gland (or the urethral sponge) is responsible for non-urine female ejaculation and that the G-spot is actually a system of glands and ducts located within the anterior (front) wall of the vagina.
Stimulation
All vaginas are different, both in their depth and their stimulation response. Not all vaginas ejaculate and not all vaginas respond to G-spot stimulation, but it is worth experimenting with to see if it is something you enjoy. If you’re interested in exploring g-spot stimulation, one of the easiest ways is by using a g-spot toy.
Toys designed for g-spot stimulation always have at least one of two qualities: a strong curve and/or a large head. Avoid vibrators that claim to offer both male prostate and G Spot stimulation. These toys aren’t effective for either because both areas require different lengths and angles.
Cultural & Social Notes promoting Sexual Positivity
REMINDER
A note about gender and sexual fluidity: Nothing is usually set in black and white. Like life, gender and sexuality come in all variations (the "50 Shades of Grey" title makes a little more sense now, right?) There are many people who don't identify as the gender most often associated with their personal sexual organs. A person may also be straight, gay, or anywhere on the spectrum in between. If you would like to learn more about gender and sexuality terms, Arnold Zwicky has a wonderful guide HERE